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GSDguy08

by GSDguy08 on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

So you guys all remember when that guy previously annoyed Anubis my pup to the point of him growling. Today I went to the fire station. I figured I'd walk around in there, get him use to some of the noises going on, ect ect. I went up to two of the guys standing outside.  I started to ask them if I could walk him around in there, and they were like yeah sure.  Well consider Anubis is a puppy, most puppies his age that are going to do the work most of us on here want them to do aren't that advanced in obedience, nor do they want to just sit there for long periods of time, ect ect as we want to build confidence, focus more on building prey drive and manners at this point. I don't typically mind people petting him at this point, most pet him, he licks them, and I've only had a few people to be rude.  Back to what I was saying though, this guy, caught on his ego trip, gets tries to call Anubis to him, Anubis wouldn't have reached him, but he walked forward, and then Anubis jumps on him to play and he corrected Anubis right in front of me and made him sit down and tried to start petting him.  To me thats pretty much one of those "how dare you do that" kind of things. He had no right to encourage the dog, walk towards it, and then correct it right on the spot.  I moved his hand out of the way with mine, and he lit in on me for doing it, telling me never to do that again. And I told him how we're working on building confidence with things and he should not be corrected from someone else....his response, well he must be pretty confident if he came up to me. Sorry to sound crazy, but are some people this stupid?   I was talking to the other fireman when he started to do this so I didn't even get to "correct" or pull him away.  I refrained from being rude, but I did tell him to never pet my dog if you're going to correct it, and he just kept saying, well I'm not a dog trainer.  We were origionally far away enough that he couldn't reach that guy, but I know a lot of insecure dogs that I have worked with would have probably bit that guy in this case.  What would you guys have done in this case? Keep in mind I DID ask him to stop once before moving his hand out of the way and he just kept doing it.


RLHAR

by RLHAR on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

Seriously, I'm beginning to think I live on the planet Mars or something. :)

No one has ever approached or tried to pet my dog, in fact most people back away from her and those who do come close have always asked my permission before reaching down to her.

Though, now that I think about it, usually when people pass us or come up I put my dog into a sit or a platz to keep her from jumping up, since she is such a love bug.  People see this and I guess I've been lucky that they respect that my dog is on obedience and if they don't and move to her, making her break I just calmly correct her and put her back to the sit or the platz so the correction comes from me.

At that point most people get the idea and either stop paying attention to her and just talk to me or ask me if they can pet her at which point I release her and let her wiggle and lick them to death.

4pack

by 4pack on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

Get a harness or vest that says "Don't touch my fing dog!" Problem solved. When I took my puppy to the vet, the techs are great but the actual vet lady...bitch always pushes my puppies off of her and tries to make them sit. But this is the same wench that thinks my dog who doesn't like his temperature taken by them shouldn't be bred because he has a vicious temperament. Sure lady, let me slap you down and stick a hard, cold rod up your ass.

I wouldn't worry so much about ruining your pup GSDguy, he sounds solid enough. Just start telling people, before they get near enough to touch your dog, your rules and if they don't want to follow them, they don't get to pet him.

You can pet him if...
you don't correct him for anything, that's my job
you don't mind being mawled by sharp puppy teeth and nails
you don't act like a spastic crackhead or move like your on PCP
add your own rules here...

If they can't agree, move on and away.


Two Moons

by Two Moons on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

You didn't properly set up the situation.
You didn't have control.
The dog learned a lesson and so did you.

justcurious

by justcurious on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

these guys aren't respecting you - you need to channel your inner bitch don't be disrespect but be more confident, clear minded and firm about what you expect and where the boundries are.  if you are fine with people petting your pup tell them "you are welcome you pet him but only if he approaches you and welcomes it, but please don't use his name nor give him any commands."

DebiSue

by DebiSue on 05 May 2009 - 17:05

I'm thinking a firehouse is not a good place to go simply because of all the testosterone inflamed egos you will run into.  And before anyone bites me in the butt for that comment let me say I speak from experience.  My younger brother is a fireman (captain) and I hate to visit him at the station because he can be such an ass when he is at work.  It is a different world in that station, all male, all cavemen, most swinging from the rafters.  Don't get me wrong.  If you go in on business or they don't know who you are you get a lot of respect.  They let down their hair if they know you.  They do an incredible job that I couldn't and wouldn't do.  They are in a lot of respects, heroes for doing the line of work they do...but they can still be dumber than a bunch of rocks.  They often get caught up in the "top this" mentality and heaven forbid if someone outside the "brotherhood" steps in and corrects one of them.  I tend to speak my mind so I'm always pissing someone off when I'm there...usually my brother.  

I think you should have just turned around and taken Anubus someplace else.  Sounds to me like you've taken him to enough places so that he is confident and secure regardless of what is going on around him.  Maybe you can call ahead to some place else and ask if you can bring him in and find out if the people there are willing to keep their hands to themselves. 

I'm afraid you would have a problem with me if you ran into me as I just love this dog.  I would want to grab him by the cheeks and get down in his face and just waller him all over!  And I'm sure I'd get my nose nipped and rightly so but he is sooooo gorgeous...and I don't normally care for sables.  Just something about him since you first posted his pix.  I think you have something special there.  He may even be idiot proof!

Deb

GSDguy08

by GSDguy08 on 05 May 2009 - 18:05

Deb thanks for the compliment on him. He's a real joy to have. And I do like that idea of calling first.  And two moons, what would you have done then? I doubt you've done everything perfect with all of your dogs and never had a problem.  Anyway, where do you get no petting vests for a pup of his size? There are times I'm fine with people petting him, but there are times that I just don't want it.

by Bob McKown on 05 May 2009 - 19:05

I completly agree with moons on this one, You are ultimatly responsible for any situation your dog finds it,s self in. Live and learn.

RLHAR

by RLHAR on 05 May 2009 - 19:05

There are times I'm fine with people petting him, but there are times that I just don't want it.

That's all well and good but how is Joe Q Public supposed to know unless you give some sort of indication that you don't want your dog petted?

I guess if I brought a dog around a location and said 'I'm here to socialize my dog' and people interpreted that to mean 'pet and interact with' that would be my fault if I didn't distinguish my rules and expectations from the start. 

You can't ask people to read your mind.  A vest sounds like a good idea or else be aware of your surroundings and be ready to head people off at the pass before they reach for your puppy.

Basically whether it's fair or not, you're the one with your hand on the leash, you need to make your rules and intentions clear from the get go not only to your pup but to the people around you both.

GSDguy08

by GSDguy08 on 05 May 2009 - 19:05

RLHAR thats what I meant by the vest.....times I'm okay with petting..no vest...times I'm not okay with it...vest. Just where do you get it though?





 


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