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Mystere

by Mystere on 29 April 2009 - 16:04

Tess, You are absolutely correct--she did say she intended to sell the dog. I was one of those who offered to help pay for her to ship the dog back to Chris, the breeder. Wuzzup, The thread was deleted, but many of us distinctly recall the statement about selling. Many of us alwo offered to pay the costs of shipping her back to the breeder, who committed to paying a full refund.

by TessJ10 on 29 April 2009 - 16:04

It's probably still out there in Google cache - can you remember the name of the thread that was deleted? 

wuzzup

by wuzzup on 29 April 2009 - 16:04

I remember the jumping  up thread . I was sure she worked past that issue . I did not see her say she would sell her at that time .I may have missed that one post . I am sure this last time she did not say she was selling Bella . I know some threads are missing . I just thought the breeder may have the thread saved for her files . I remember everyone willing to help pay for Bella to be returned to the breeder . I think triodegirl would have done the honorable thing if she really was going to sell Bella .She does not sound heartless. JMO

by LPK on 29 April 2009 - 16:04

Anyone who has ever met or dealt with Chris and Joe at Silbersee knows an accusation against them dealing with a lack of integrity or lack of caring for the dogs they breed- or the GSD breed as a whole- is complete and total BS. 

Triodegirl- you should understand that even if Bella NEVER accomplishes anything, she will still be a star in her breeder's eyes- that's just how Silbersee is.  You would have been wise to handle this privately because then you might not have lost such a wealth of information and support as Silbersee. 

If you know you've made a mistake by bringing this issue out here, which is pretty evident to most of us, you should apologize to Chris.  If you want to return Bella, even if its not in your contract, return her.  Chris has already stated she will take her back.  It is always way too easy for us to make mistakes- especially through misunderstanding typed statements.  How you handle mistakes after the fact tells who you really are.

by triodegirl on 29 April 2009 - 17:04

No need to look up  the thread on google. I did say I would sell Bella in a few weeks. I made that comment in response to a private email from Chris saying that if I wouldn't give Bella back to her, could I please sell her to someone who cares. That's why I made the comment. Bur the thread did not start by me saying I was going to sell, trade or do anything else with Bella. And I never said I was not happy with her. And I did send Chris an email apologizing for every thing except being born to which she never responded. To me that meant she wasn't accepting my apology. That's why I got mad when I saw what she posted in the comments section. Sorry I brought this all up again. My fault.

animules

by animules on 29 April 2009 - 17:04

Many of us offered to help with the cost of shipping to return Bella to Chris.  Too bad Triodegirl did not accept the kind offers of Chris to give a full refund or those of us here so there would be no out of pocket to return Bella.

I am not looking forward to reading your next saga on your next dog.  You can't handle a dog you claim is too soft yet you want a tough male? 

 

Your being "done here" didn't last long either did it. 


Now I'm really pissed
by triodegirl on 25 April 2009 - 21:04
"...I'm done here."

 


by triodegirl on 29 April 2009 - 17:04

Animules, I would never make any decisions about Bella based on money collected on an internet forum.

Obviously I made a big mistake when I asked for advice about Bella jumping. I just thought that was what this forum was here for--to ask for advice. I also asked for advice about the mange and her first heat. My bad.

funky munky

by funky munky on 29 April 2009 - 17:04

I have read the comments by yourself and Chris in the user comments section, i even made a comment myself.  I cannot find anything wrong with what Chris has said she has been nothing but genuine with you.  I did notice you said Bella is worth twice what you paid for her as you have spent 10 months house and obedience training her.  Could this be your problem?  You have been offered a full refund, is that not enough?  IMO it is a very generous offer, Chris may have to spend another 10 months trying to undo anything you may have done incorrectly.  And no i do not know Chris personally, but she comes across as honest, genuine, dedicated, and knowledgable breeder, so if your aim is to blacken her name here, you're out of luck, it won't work!!!!  liz

by beetree on 30 April 2009 - 00:04

123 who gives a flying crap? Not like you are trying to make the situation better. Au contraire.

justcurious

by justcurious on 30 April 2009 - 02:04

triodegirl as long as you are happy with bella that's all that matters (and i honestly think that's what the breeder really cares about)  this doesn't mean you can't talk about her flaws or any challenges you are having just be sure to talk about the great & funny things she does as well   it's easy to forget to mention the good stuff when you have a lot of hurdles to get over, but when posting on line it helps the readers get a better picture/a more complete picture if you add it in, and it will hopefully keep many from jumping to really negative conclusions. 

i also think it's important to remember that email, and the like, suck for communicating clearly - they are just begging to be misunderstood - so though some things that are said can and do piss us off - it's good to let most of it roll off and not take it too personal - ignore the a**hole comments and staying focused on the good stuff.

i'm sure you will get just what you want from bella, you just ned to decide what that is and help her get from where she is to where you want her to be.  enjoy her and tell her there are lot of people here who care about her happiness and well-being. 

my best to both of you,
susan






 


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