Shelley and the GSD Underground Railway - Page 8

Sam, 

You can wait until Hell freezes over for your anwers.  Shelley doesn't answer to you. 

Your abusive tactics won't work either so you might as well hang it up.  We can all see what you are trying to do here.  You are failing in your attempts to discredit Shelley by asking her to divulge info that is none of your business.  You are failing in your attempts to control her by shaming her into thinking she is at fault for what happened.  You are so full of it when you say you know more about how the law responds in a woman's favor.  FIrst hand knowledge?  Tells me all I need to know.  Who did you slap around?  You can deny it all you want but you have made it clear who's side you are on and it isn't Shelley's. 

Oh, and keep your money.  Shelley doesn't need help from someone like you.  She had more than enough of that kind of help back home.

Go crawl under your rock and pound sand.

Most sincerely,
DebiSue

Sam I was only telling the story of what happened to me through 13 and 4 months years of "wedded bliss".

The only way I got the gun away from him was to explaine that he was too drunk to shoot me and that if he gave me the gun I would kill him first and then kill myself. He gave me the gun I got him to lay down, pisitioned myself inbetween him and the door and when he looked the other way ran like hell.

this was just a few years ago.

I think you gals are taking it the wrong way.  I have never physically assaulted or condone physical abuse on a woman.  I just call a spade a spade.  I want to know all of the answers.  Why is someone claiming to be halfway to California when they haven't left Pennsylvania?

I'm not on anyone's side.  If she is telling the truth, please send me a PM of her lawyer's number or address and I will send the money directly to him/her.  How hard is that?  If you want,  please let me know what police department wrote up the report and I'll contact them.  I will personally set up a fund for Shelley through the police department.   

i am all for helping someone in need, but I need to know the truth.  Not fabrications.  If she is really in need, then I will gladly help.  I don't understand.  People like Krazy Bout K9s offered a place to stay, a job and a trainer.  Why hasn't she taken this person up on the offer?  Why is it that this is the same story she had a couple years ago?  Why didn't she take the place to stay? 

I have gotten numerous PMs from people that feel the same way.  I am not the only one that feels like half the story is missing or made up. 

Just answer the questions, please.  I am not asking questions that will make her vulnerable to her husband.  These should be easy answers for a person telling the truth.

Many of us have made the same mistake more than once.  That can't possibly be a surprise to any student of human nature.

I feel certain tha Shelley will not choose another abusive loser.

I don't care where she is right now-none of my business.  I just hope that wherever she is, that she is safe with the comforts of civilization available for herself and her precious dogs.

Bien viaje,

Michele and Pharaoh

And, I 2nd that Pharaoh!

Jen

Sam,

I agree with Pharraoh, and I might add that It is not necessary to qualify an act of kindness.  


RPK

SamSpade,

Shelley doesn't have to send you any information.  If you read this thread and the other you will see why she had to make such a quick exit.  Why she hadn't done it sooner, well unless you have been mentally and physically abused you just don't have a clue what it can do to a person.  You are afraid to say the wrong thing or you will have a bloody face or the smart ones now go for the body shots so their wife can cover it up.  What do I know about this type of situation, well I watched my mom go through it, the oh he loves me his is going to change, more bruises, more verbal abuse, more physical abuse.  My mom left her tracked her down wanted to talk to her, her friend was in the other room.  He wanted my mom to come back, she said no, he stood up and shot her.  The Commonwealth of KY did NOTHING, not a F____ing thing.  My mom was extremely lucky as the 25 cal. slug didn't hit any vital organs.  A year later he heard I was coming for a visit and he wanted to see me, I told my mom to tell him to keep his distance from me because IF I saw him any where near her or myself I would kill him.

Guys that do this are so so so good at munituplating women, with a contstant good times, bad times, good times, bad times cycles.  They control every penny, you don't account for it all you get more abuse, maybe not at that minute but it will come.  It is a power trip, he knew Shelley wouldn't/couldn't leave because of the dogs.  Made sure she didn't have access to a good vehicle, just one that would get her from point A to B locally.  It is all about control.  When you live with that for any length of time it wears you down, it tears you down.  My mom is no where close to what she was before the abuser.

SamSpade, if you want to help Shelley fine, if not I am sure she will survive without your help.

Val

Sam
I always took you to be a nice Guy, but the way you are acting on here is not at all nice
The thing is, you accept what is said and send a few dollars or you say No' i will not and thats the end of it
When Shelley's Computer broke down i did not think it was a scam i knew she was genuinely without a computer and as my Laptop was hardly ever used i sent it gladly to help  her out it was no big deal wanting to know this or that about a person , and i guess it is still being put to good use her posting on here 
You etheir trust them or you do not, As Y.R says it was not Shelley who asked for Funds Two of the other Guys organized it, But the truth is we help out or we do not and without wanting to know everything up front,
It is more than enough what the Lady is going through now without added pressure to divulge this or that
As i said you mean well and seem a nice sort of person if you want to help out thats great and would be welcomed, if you need to know every detail of the problem first then best not, but please do not keep asking questions to embarrass Shelley it is not needed, we can make our own minds up without wanting to know every little detail
Steve

Pharaoh
I know where she is, that is what boggles the mind.  She stated one thing, yet she hasn't left the state, which makes her a liar.

Like I said, why are these questions so hard to answer?  Why is it so hard to put one piece of evidence that this is true?  All I am asking is for the attorney's info or the police department.  Why is that such a problem?  I would think that anyone telling the truth would have zero problem with that.

You know it is odd.  You all don't mind divulging your stories, but the person asking for money cannot answer a simple question?  I see nothing wrong in letting me know the police department involved so I can set up a fund for Shelley.  I guess I don't understand what the problem is.  I am asking for the police department that wrote the report. 

Sam
The Police will or should not tell you anything you are a stranger to Shelley and to them and its none of your business
You are just being plain awkward and nosy, Better for all if you do not donate then you do not need to know anymore than the rest of us and it should put your mind at rest for it will not concern you
Steve