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by Two Moons on 17 March 2010 - 02:03
Since we were confronted with this particular case in point, and it does seem to be above board, yes we should help.
But I would remind all here that there are literally thousands,
maybe millions in similar circumstances that also deserve help.
Do we seek them out?
Or wait until they all come here to ask?
Do we give priority to animals, or humans?
How about race, nationality, or religion?
How caring, how giving can anyone be in the world we live in?
There are so many in need, some who give are in need themselves.
Some have more than others to give.
I remember a story about giving, the wealthy gave much, but one who was poor gave everything.
I remember another story about helping those who help themselves.
No one should feel guilt about taking care of themselves first.
No one can buy their way into heaven either.
I can't help having mixed emotions about the whole situation and don't mind saying so.
Susanandthek9's,
No one mentioned bullets.
I think we teach our children about life and all that it means, you can't leave out the end of the story and claim to have educated your children properly.
Moons.
by susanandthek9s on 17 March 2010 - 07:03
Update:
Nala's eyes are responding to the medications, and she has her eyes open much of the time, which she hasn't done for a long time. In part this is because she is now taking a pain medication (Tramadol). (Severe dry eyes feel like someone threw a handful of sand into your eyes.) Again, any help the meds provide is temporary and the salivary gland transfer surgery is still needed. (The surgery is also cheaper than continual treatment with meds.) But hopefully the meds will help the corneal ulcer heal ASAP.
I've made arrangements for Nala and her people to see a boarded surgeon on Thursday. He *may* do the surgery at a discount--absolutely no promises from him here. I'll keep all of you posted.
For those who have offered to help--thank you so much, from me and Nala's people. They seemed so bewildered at first that people would actually help them. They are not whiners and I have not heard them complain once about how difficult their situation is. With all the abuse and neglect of kids in the world, it is incredible to see how they have dedicated their lives to giving Cody a happy life. The cost has been very great—economically devastating, almost no free time or social life, chronic sleep deprivation. But they've done it and are doing it. They have given so much that it seems only right to save Nala for them and Cody.
I made a point of having them take Nala to the best ophthalmologist I know of in the area because there was no way I was going to ask people to help out until we knew for sure exactly what the problem was and what treatment was needed. It was well worth the money.
by beetree on 17 March 2010 - 13:03
What moves someone to help is always a personal choice or decision. Saving one won't save them all but that shouldn't stop someone who wants to help "the one".
JMHO, and I want to help, and I have my personal reasons. I will await further to hear about the surgery option/costs, and donation method. I do feel this is a deserving family that needs to keep little Cody with his dog, and can only do so with help. It would give me pleasure to know I helped give them a much needed break.
Susanandthek9's you are one awesome person. too.
by GSDtravels on 17 March 2010 - 13:03
Susan, I PM'ed you early yesterday for the address to send a donation and have not gotten a response. I think maybe your inbox is a bit full. It may be wise to post the address here so it takes a bit of the burden from you to respond to each. Just a thought.
by ShadyLady on 17 March 2010 - 15:03
To give or not to give....
All of the choices these parents have made from the beginning would not have been my choices, but I would still give in this case to help with their dog's gland surgery...although in giving I think we all should have input in guiding them to seek out the care that is best and resonably priced, because they had reached a deadend.
Everyone has their limits and so some give, some do not and there are all areas of giving (or not) inbetween. I'm certainly not going to judge people who feel one way or another, as it's all a personal thing.
by susanandthek9s on 17 March 2010 - 15:03
GSDTravels, I never got your PM--the Internet must have eaten it. Would you be kind enough resend it?
As soon as we know who will be doing the surgery and how donations should be made, I'll let everyone know. We're still working on finding the most economically feasible option with a qualified surgeon. We want to keep the cost as low as possible but still have a good chance of success.
beetree, thank you for your kind words. This situation just broke my heart. Life really stinks sometimes. However stupid it may sound, I believe we are put on this earth to do what we can to make the world a better place. Just because we can't fix everything doesn't mean we shouldn't fix anything.
by 1doggie2 on 17 March 2010 - 15:03
Either way the dog is going to need help. Is someone going to post here information to accomplish this goal?
by GSDtravels on 17 March 2010 - 16:03
by susanandthek9s on 17 March 2010 - 17:03
The family can take care of the dog, especially now that the ophthalmologist's staff taught them how to restrain Nala so one person can put the drops in her eyes. Also, now that Nala is not in so much pain, she is much easier to medicate. Once the surgery and its aftercare are done, there will most likely be little or no further treatment needed.
Losing Nala would be a terrible blow to this family, so getting her the surgery is the best option. Having met Nala, I can assure you that she is happy, sassy, healthy except for the eye problem, and well cared for.
by beetree on 17 March 2010 - 19:03
This is just a thought; I just received a mailing from the Make-A-Wish Foundation. This is what it says on the back of their envelope:
We invite you to share the power of a wish.
If you know a child with a life-threatening medical condition, please have his or her parent or guardian call the Make-A-Wish Foundation at (800) 722-WISH or visit wish.org
It certainly wouldn't hurt to make a phone call.
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