This is a placeholder text
Group text
by raymond on 18 August 2009 - 22:08
by Sam Spade on 18 August 2009 - 22:08
Shelley
Don't get your tattered panties in a bunch. My point of an exit strategy was that you have been complaining about this for over two years. This isn't the first time. AND you act like you are driving all over the country and you're still in PA.
When I said, I don't know you, I meant personally. But I do know who you are and I have done too many profiles in my life.
And what's with the story about the State Pen? When did I ever say you weren't who you say you were? I just think it is fishy when somebody has been offered numerous homes over the last few years and never actually contacts those that offer. People offer to use your PAYPAL account, yet you would rather they sent money order. You claimed to be on the road in numerous places in the middle of the US, but you are still in Pennsylvania at Molly's. Where are your family or friends? When someone asks an honest question about why they are sending money or what the situation is, they are shot down because they "should read between the lines". Forget that! If I'm gonna help someone, I want to know the facts. If that is too painful, well then maybe you shouldn't post your personal problems on a public forum. Go to your personal friends and family.
by ShelleyR on 18 August 2009 - 22:08
A controling narsasistic drunk will make sure that you do not have the means to get away.
Its called economic abuse. It includes, but is not limited to DESTROYING any effort you make to hold a job, run a business, get ahead, and then doing their very best to berate you constantly for being such a loser.
He will destroy every friendship made, to the point that even your own parents don't want to make contact, because they may have to deal with him.
Like, say, threatening to kill them when they call or come on the property?
No worries about entertaining, that's for sure.
SS
by Sam Spade on 18 August 2009 - 23:08
How hard is it to dial 911?
Shelly, I really wouldn't mind some answers.
by raymond on 18 August 2009 - 23:08
by Sam Spade on 18 August 2009 - 23:08
by yellowrose of Texas on 18 August 2009 - 23:08
SAM: SHE HAS ALREADY done all that..SHe has help standing.bye..for all you that do not know...Shelley has taken the appropriate steps.....gosh..she is not A dummy.
The wheels of the law are already moving and she has representation......All is in order
Details do not need to be on this forum concerning all that...Three other base people have assisted in this...
She is at one of her friends and another two are handling other things....and three more are doing other help...HER FRIENDS ARE WORKING>>>>> no one knows the WHOLE and it will not be told here......JUST trust and send her what you want... and anyone that wants to help...
ACTUALLY,,,, SAM>>>> one of her friends started this...Shelley did not come on here asking....HER two friends started this thread and the other one......
by SitasMom on 18 August 2009 - 23:08
sam go check out any of the emotional abuse fact sites...........i have a feeling you are one of those guys who just might be able to check off one or two too many of the boxes............
as far as the legal system goes, emotional abuse is a form of abuse, but it is so hard to proove that it's basicly impossible. the partner has to wait until there is physical damage, and not just once........
the emotional abuse starts very slowly, and before you know it you think you're going crazy. dates and facts are slightly twisted, what you thought happened some how is just not what you remember.......it gets worse and worse until you don't know right from wrong and when he is screaming at you about how you can load a dishwasher correctly, that you don't love the kinds (in front of them) that your a cunt, or a worthless sack of shit you have no defense any more.
then comes the violense, it starts with a clentched fisy, the a slap on the face, then a punch, then he rapes you - its his right of course. then he compeltely beats the shit out of you. finally you can call 911 and the police will file a report. they will say somethng like - well looks like you've setteled down. do you think you can behave yourself........
the second time the police will tell him to go to a friends' house or get a hotel room for the night and come back tomorrow.........
eventually he will put a gun to your head.
don't know what happens after that, I was able to run and didn't turn go back..........
That being said - Sam you may now go straight to hell!
by Sam Spade on 19 August 2009 - 00:08
Wow. you come on a public forum asking for help, yet you don't want to devulge the info to the public.
Her friend started the thread? Who? Hell, I could have 5 or 6 names on here.
No Sita'smom, the odds are actually in the females favor. Look up the stats yourself.
Krazy Bout K9s offered her a place to stay, a job, and a trainer. What more does she want?
Don't give me the excuse that you have to be a multiple victim or a victim of rape to get action. I know first hand that is not the truth. You can spin it all you want, but like you said, there is a progression that takes place. It doesn't happen over night. You don't meet a guy, fall in love and one day he snaps.
OH, and I'm still waiting for my answers. It's funny, I can't get answers, but you can ask for money.
What is her attorney's name? I will forward him the money
by ShelleyR on 19 August 2009 - 01:08
...and I'm betting you probably do!
Contact information Disclaimer Privacy Statement Copyright Information Terms of Service Cookie policy ↑ Back to top