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Not exactly DD, M used a bit of innuendo, I picked up some off-vibes with early posts. The point is, there is NO POINT dissecting the "she said, she said" part of this, right now. They both need distance literally and figuratively to get to the heart of the matter. Take a number and get in line, but let Shelley get to her destination with a safe delivery of her precious load, first. 

"I believe people are still supporting Shelley and are not 'wavering.'"

Let's hope for her sake you are correct.  

And I also hope Geblaut chose to elaborate on Shelley's time spent living at Molly's without Shelley's foreknowledge or approval.  Because there was no need to get into any of that for Shelley - or any surrogate - to defend against a few random accusations of irresponsible breeding of Shelley's bitch.  One had nothing to do with the other.

Let's see - about the female that Shelley and I CO-OWN.  Agreement to breed her and split the litter - we have done that twice and plans were to do that once more instead of spay/retire her as had been the plan -  because SHELLEY needed the money from the litter in her times of difficulty.  Breeding a coming-9 year old female - not really what I do.  But she is in excellent shape, and Shelley and I agreed she could handle one more litter, because SHELLEY needed that income.
The agreement was/is, that I keep the female - feed, house, care for, exercise, vet care, whelp the litter, care for the litter, raise the litter,  advertose the litter, sell the litter, do EVERYTHING for the female and the litter - and Shelley pays 1/2 the vet bill, and 1/2 the stud fee (not my stud dog).  Same deal as the two litters before.  She gets the money for 1/2 the litter, I get the money for 1/2 the litter. 

So,  Shelley, after previously telling me that she would use her 1/2 the litter to pay me what she owes me for rent/board - decides instead to take the female with her to CA.  Having already been convinced that I'll never see a cent of any of that that she promised to pay me (and contracts don't hold water when it's across the country, I am fully aware of that), I told her in that case if she would be taking the female and getting 100% of the litter, I would then have to charge her board for the female for the 4 months since her last litter was weaned -  Why in the world would I be expected to house, care for, feed, exercise, and otherwise support a dog if I wasn't getting the agreed-upon 1/2  litter?  That's not how agreements work.  They are not "whatever is best for shelley "

So she had a choice - take the female, end the deal for co-owned litter, and pay for the female for her stay for 4 months.  Or, leave her here and honor the previously made deal.  Shelley chose the latter.  It was up to her.

Again, I had already been "walked on" I had no desire to continue to be taken advantage of more.  I am naive I guess, but I'm not stupid.  My generosity and good nature had come to an end well before that point.

Feel free to share my "nasty" e-mails - they say exactly as above.  I have nothing at all to hide or feel sorry for.  I did everything in my power to help Shelley when she needed help, and all I got in return was a feeling of being a victim myself.



molly

Tess please understand that I am not nor intend to preach anything to anyone! I have just as much a right to tell Shelly encourageing words as anyone else1 I was not the one who attempted to contradict a statement. And your perception of christians is not true! Are you one of the elitists who are allowed to say whatever you wish without repercussions! Steve has no right or business telling shelly she does not need faith!  Now it is all fine and dandy for him to tell her she needs willpower1 but to tell her to abandon her faith is where I draw the line in the sand! Now you think as you wish but leave my name out of your posts! I

What A Country - Homeward bound -2
by steve1 on 12 January 2010 - 18:01

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Raymond
All you need is Will Power nothing else and that comes from within yourself no one can put it there or take it away.
Faith you do not need, and I hope Shelley has that Will Power to see it through and i am sure she does as she is one tough lady
Steve1
As you can see from Steves post I guess it is ok to tell Shelly what she does not need! Far be it from me to contridict our new God steve1 He evidently has all the answers ! So Shelly I stand corrected !  Now Steve can you tell us the winning horse at pimlico tommorrow? Maybe a good stock tip?  Now for someone tosay such a thing and no rebukes from others on this board! But let raymond tell her to keep ahold of her faiith and oh my linos tigers and bears! Strage how somone can even get away with telling another you do not need faith! Well just another example of the state of man!

Ray, give it a rest already!  this is not about you or what you believe or don't believe!
C'mon, quit pushing!

No shit Raymond, shut up and quit hyjacking this thread. Take your religion-babble elsewhere.