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by Bob McKown on 13 January 2010 - 20:01
You people disgust me, the lot of you.
Right,wrong or indifferent those that gave money I hope never expected it back and I believe those that have pretty much figured they werent going to. I would not know Shelley if she slapped me sideways but I wish her well I don,t care about the religion,personnell issues,or coulda shoulda woulda stuff going on here it,s all sub story. If any lessons are learned here then I hope it is all learned for the best. Some people opened there hearts even if just for a time and helped to those who have,are,and will you have my respect.
Shelley; Best trip to you, be safe.
by beetree on 13 January 2010 - 20:01
And now we all know the other side of the story. Somehow I wish I didn't know any of this, Unfortunately breakups of friendships over money or feelings of being taken advantage aren't uncommon. The truth is usually somewhere in the middle of both of the injured parties versions. There is a sadness here, now, oops, my own...Sigh...
I still want to hear about the rest of Shelley's journey. I hope everyone who just had to bring this on are very happy now.

by MaggieMae on 13 January 2010 - 21:01

by Sunsilver on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
Last I heard of the young lady, she was free of the abusive mother, married to a guy who sounded half-decent, and had a baby on the way.
I provided her with that first step up the ladder, and despite the headaches and heartaches she caused me, I don't regret it.
It did make me a little more careful about taking in stray cats, though...
To those of you who have helped Shelly out, good for you. Now, it is up to Shelly to see what she can make of the rest of her life. I wish her well, and hope she will not repeat the same mistakes. It's a very common pattern with those who have lived in abusive situations.

by steve1 on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
Yes if that is Christianity and being a Christian the way Raymond posts with his foul mouth then i am glad i have nothing to do with it
But is like water off a ducks back to me with people like him i have met many in my life just like him, they were unsound confused people who need help badly
Steve1
by eichenluft on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
molly

by raymond on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
by TessJ10 on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
"Yes if that is Christianity and being a Christian the way Raymond posts with his foul mouth then i am glad i have nothing to do with it"
No, that's not Christianity. That's raymond. It doesn't negate what Jesus actually said, did, or taught. But it doesn't help! (LOL)
Hang in there, Shelley and Molly both. It is true that people coming out of abusive relationships have often developed a very passive way of being...any "action," even basic activities, are very difficult to do. Doesn't make it any easier for anybody...
Good post, Sunsilver.

by steve1 on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
I went out and found my mate and fixed him his remark was to mind my own F---- business if i knew what was good for me, Oh yes i knew what was good for me to stop him there and then, and i did but he was a bit of a mess and someone called the police and an ambulance I went inside the cooler for a few days, but he never pressed charges so i did not get a jail sentence but i tell you it would have been worth it and when i got out he would have paid twice over for me going there
His wife found the courage to get a divorce and i heard a few years later she was happy with some Guy
I cannot stick abuse of women or children at any price and it is a privilege to be of little help to Shelley and i reckon all the Guys who helped think the same as i do
No payment of any kind is needed or expected the reward will to see her reach her goal and be happy thats enough for all of us
Looking on the Map it looks like she has about 4 states to go through to get to Modesto and around 1400 miles still a way to go yet
Shelley do not forget to keep check on the Oil and Water do it regular every couple of days that is important
Steve1

by MaggieMae on 13 January 2010 - 21:01
Well, none of us were there. Both are probably telling the truth from their perspective as they "lived it."
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