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by Micky D on 24 March 2010 - 15:03
There is help out there. I wish you, your dad and of course the dogs all the best,
Micky

by ZIN on 24 March 2010 - 15:03
My grandparents lived in a duplex with there daughter and son in law but my grandma got so bad that it was just not save for her to be in her own home anymore even with family only seconds away. That in itself is a hard decision to make having to put her in a home but it is our job to step up and do whats right. You can't blame yourself for the decisions you will have to make even though they will be unpleasant.
my thoughts are with you stay strong he is lucky to have someone like you because many do not.
by 1doggie2 on 24 March 2010 - 16:03

by BabyEagle4U on 24 March 2010 - 16:03
I'd never want my parents or relatives in assisted living outside their own home though. My family is weird like that.
So far we all passed of old age at the main house. Except for some major accidents that lead to DOA or a foreign War.
Maybe you can apply 4 a grant and keep him in his home with assisted living ? I dunno, we've never done this but have heard about it .. just thought I'd mention it.
by tuffscuffleK9 on 24 March 2010 - 16:03
However, I have helped families train their dog or dogs to be therapy dogs (labs do great) so that they can take them to see their loved ones.
Your Dad would also love showing off his girls.
Just a Thought,
Tuff

by RLHAR on 24 March 2010 - 18:03
My father is having surgery today to address the original health issue that started this whole ball rolling. He's been pretty foggy over the past couple of days so I haven't had a chance to talk -at- him about what he allowed to happen but believe me, as soon as he's feeling well enough to listen we are going to have a serious conversation.
I actually have an ace in the hole, in the form of one of the labs. The 3 year old was very much my mother's dog, went to the hospital to be with my mother in the last few weeks of my mother's life and is a very sweet and sensitive lab. It took her months to stop looking for my mother and now with my father having 'gone' away, the poor girl doesn't know if she's coming or going. She's spent the last two nights curled up on my bed with her head on my stomach to make sure *I* don't go anywhere.
I plan to point out to him that even if he feels like he doesn't have to 'make the effort' to look out for himself, he's got two dogs who believe the sun rises and sets on him and what he's done to them is unfair.
We'll see what comes out of the conversations and go from there I suppose. Thank you again everybody.

by animules on 24 March 2010 - 18:03

by Mystere on 24 March 2010 - 18:03
I would bet your father feels the same way about those two lives that are so devoted to, and dependent on, him. He will want to do what is best for them, even if he does not have appropriate concern for himself. The dogs are still young enough to have increased odds of finding "forever homes," as opposed to a few years from now.

by Rookabadooka on 24 March 2010 - 18:03
I am sorry I just skimmed this (screaming kids :)) If your father will be staying at home, try contacting your local senior center. They may be able to get you in touch with a group that can help by stopping in and helping care for the dogs. Groups like Eagle Scouts etc. may also offer some help. I hope you find the assistance you need. Prayers to you.
~Rooka

by BabyEagle4U on 24 March 2010 - 19:03
I'd go this route before apply for the grant. Prolly 8 of the 10 people requesting the help, the Scouts church might even contribute with the meal on wheels and daily socializing too. Great idea actually.
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