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by oregontnt2007 on 25 April 2012 - 13:04
OK, that spelling error was the neurontin, speaking last night....it was to be Victoria.... my bad. Now I am up & running I get the joy of doing that all over again every day for the rest of my life.
< rolling my eyes>
by beetree on 25 April 2012 - 14:04
At least you can spell "neurontin". LOL
Ninja,
In response to your answer to :
I would like to say I would never say such a thing, as I find the chances of it becoming a self-fulfilling prophesy, is extremely high.
Ninja,
In response to your answer to :
| #2) Is that all there is? |
I would like to say I would never say such a thing, as I find the chances of it becoming a self-fulfilling prophesy, is extremely high.
by Ibrahim on 25 April 2012 - 18:04
Good one, actually this has to do with virtues/concepts/values in different societies: example in eastern societies like mine the highest value for a woman is her honor, a girl should remain a girl/virgin till she gets married, a woman should not betray her husband etc, therefore the worst insult a man or a woman can do to a girl/woman is something that hurts her honor like calling her a bitch for example or husband betrayer or a girl/woman without honor. In eastern societies a girl or woman who looses her honor hurts herself and her family (father/mother, brothers and sisters), a good family brings up a girl properly and this is a virtue, so another thing that can hurt a woman is being called she was not brought up properly by her family.
For the man, also in eastern societies three major things are associated with his manhood, courage, hard work/meeting financial needs of his family and being able to meet sexual needs of his woman, therefore to hurt a man here a woman or man can call him coward, useless or sexual disabled.
Ibrahim
For the man, also in eastern societies three major things are associated with his manhood, courage, hard work/meeting financial needs of his family and being able to meet sexual needs of his woman, therefore to hurt a man here a woman or man can call him coward, useless or sexual disabled.
Ibrahim
by yellowrose of Texas on 25 April 2012 - 19:04
Beetree: I have not the foggiest clue what is the worst thing to say to a man. I never had the guts to say anything ugly to my man. NOW I have called others Liars. , so my guess is they do not like to be called liars..either....
Men like words of confidence and ego boosting comments. I think both genders do.
You hit the nail square on the head. This kind of behaviour is why , some of us who do have values and have SELF control and really are looking for a monogamous relationship have problems.
MY family hates me being on it. I am on same dating site, I believe.. I have had one or two nice respectful men until they meet you.
And I have a very tiny girlfriend here, also that spends months with a man only to be tossed out and she comes back crying to me.....BUT she won't listen to me either.
I choose to stay busy looking then busy crying..lol
I have come to the conclusion , all the GOOD ones are taken.
Until you are single and on a dating site, you have no idea what men say or try until you walk in those shoes.. IT is so funny to hear the men tell of ALL the women they conquered last week while you try to keep a straight face eating across the table from Kiss and tell all...man..
Women who reward their souls for a Streak dinner, are why the rest of us who value waiting until we find the MR> RIGHT with his morals in check, have problems not throwing up before we get back home.
THe man then is right back on the SITE, on to the next one..It is laughable for sure.
I like my DESERT OR IS IT dessert???
But I am saving it till I find my Prince.
YR
Lol
Men like words of confidence and ego boosting comments. I think both genders do.
You hit the nail square on the head. This kind of behaviour is why , some of us who do have values and have SELF control and really are looking for a monogamous relationship have problems.
MY family hates me being on it. I am on same dating site, I believe.. I have had one or two nice respectful men until they meet you.
And I have a very tiny girlfriend here, also that spends months with a man only to be tossed out and she comes back crying to me.....BUT she won't listen to me either.
I choose to stay busy looking then busy crying..lol
I have come to the conclusion , all the GOOD ones are taken.
Until you are single and on a dating site, you have no idea what men say or try until you walk in those shoes.. IT is so funny to hear the men tell of ALL the women they conquered last week while you try to keep a straight face eating across the table from Kiss and tell all...man..
Women who reward their souls for a Streak dinner, are why the rest of us who value waiting until we find the MR> RIGHT with his morals in check, have problems not throwing up before we get back home.
THe man then is right back on the SITE, on to the next one..It is laughable for sure.
I like my DESERT OR IS IT dessert???
But I am saving it till I find my Prince.
YR
Lol
by Chaz Reinhold on 26 April 2012 - 02:04
I don't think there is anything a woman could say to bother me. Maybe it is the superior intellect of man.
by Ruger1 on 26 April 2012 - 03:04
Chaz,,The "right" woman would bother you IMO,,,:)
Beetree,,To tell a man he is a failure might be a pretty serious offense..Men are very performance driven and to say that they failed is tough pill for them to swallow..
Beetree,,To tell a man he is a failure might be a pretty serious offense..Men are very performance driven and to say that they failed is tough pill for them to swallow..
by beetree on 26 April 2012 - 12:04
Chaz,
I find when a man thinks he's smarter than me, I always let him think so. Unless or until, I decide I hate his guts, then I sometimes show him he's not.
Ruger1,
Good point, insults only work on somebody who cares about how the "deliverer" thinks about the "receiver".
And, to add to your other point, an even more particular failure, as in lack of prowess under the covers, seems also to be in agreement with Ibrahim's perspective. My research also indicated men especially dread the silent message of a woman grabbing their heads with both hands to stop them. It is known by them as the "universal sign of failure".
I find when a man thinks he's smarter than me, I always let him think so. Unless or until, I decide I hate his guts, then I sometimes show him he's not.
Ruger1,
Good point, insults only work on somebody who cares about how the "deliverer" thinks about the "receiver".
And, to add to your other point, an even more particular failure, as in lack of prowess under the covers, seems also to be in agreement with Ibrahim's perspective. My research also indicated men especially dread the silent message of a woman grabbing their heads with both hands to stop them. It is known by them as the "universal sign of failure".
by Ruger1 on 26 April 2012 - 20:04
Beetree,,This "universal sign of failure"..I do not get?,,I wasn't going to admit to it lol. but my curiosity is getting the best of me..;)
by oregontnt2007 on 26 April 2012 - 20:04
Ruger, this will help you ( hubby wanted me post this ) LOL
< shaking my head >
http://youtu.be/5ZRflz-93JA
< shaking my head >
http://youtu.be/5ZRflz-93JA
by beetree on 26 April 2012 - 20:04
Ruger, check your PM, LOL
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