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by Keith Grossman on 03 August 2011 - 14:08
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by ShadyLady on 03 August 2011 - 14:08
I have a dog that will charge anyone in the dark that surprises her, but this is only outside, with someone walking from a distance, so she has no clue on who is it until she gets closer. In the house, dogs I've known, are well aware
of who is walking around the house, especially if it's a family member coming into the bedroom who sleeps there. I would think Axel wouldn't be in that sound of a sleep to be startled, especially since he's charged her before and it's not like she's walking into the bedroom for the first time late at night.
Seems like he's overreacting to me. Maybe it's his age and immaturity...
Would he charge you if the situation were reversed and you came into the bedroom late at night?

by Keith Grossman on 03 August 2011 - 14:08
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by Vixen on 03 August 2011 - 16:08
Your dog 'owns' your girlfriend. You have said that he is experienced in obedience exercises, so your girlfriend just runs through basics with him. Now this would obviously suggest, that he knows what to do, demonstrates that he can do it, BUT is unchallenged with this, and your girlfriend is merely providing cues for him to respond to. In other words, she is not in a position to even calmly demand something that he can already do anyway.
Taking him for long walks, is an enjoyable interaction too, and does not require him to be respectful to your girlfriend. Walking along nicely, is simply that, walking along nicely.
When she leaves your side to go and inspect a Trade Stand, technically he is still with one of his 'Leaders/Guides' and should relax with trust. If he saw your girlfriend in this way, it would be none of his business as to her choice of action. (Similar if in an Office, the Manager suddenly stood up and walked towards the door, whose business is it to question where he/she is going)? Your dog feels as though he owns your girlfriend, and is keeping his eye on where his bone, toy, ball etc is wandering .........
The fact that this reaction happens occasionally in the bedroom, is all that is necessary for him to do, to prove his point. If he could speak it would probably be; "Who gave you permission to enter"!!
Would it be possible, that some time prior to you going to bed, your girlfriend puts his leash on. Now have your girlfriend have him lay down on the floor by the sofa where she is sitting. Holding the leash very lightly. Perhaps he could be laying there because your girlfriend requires him to do so for a while beforehand, he will probably relax and even doze. Then as you get up to go to bed, the moment he responds, with the head up, alert expression that suggests that he expects to obviously be part of this. She gives a firm 'check' on the leash, and a firm "No".
(Keith, I would continue with this text, but obviously would see no point if you disregard what I have said thus far? So to be fair to myself by not wasting time, or respecting whether you wish to ignore this Message, I will refrain from further comment).
Regards,
Vixen

by LadyFrost on 03 August 2011 - 17:08
All jokes aside...its gf demeanor upon entry....she is "sneaking" in and no dogs like that...good example, my daughter and her friend were playing hide and seek, and my dog and my daughter are very close, but when she started sneaking around the island in the kitchen to sneak up on her friend my dog started barking as if a stranger entered home, freaked everyone out...to test that my husband decided to creep into the kitchen and he was hunched over and saying 'tun, ta-tun, ta tun..." and holy crap all hell broke loose i thought she was going to attack him...as soon as he stood straight and said "knock it off" in her eyes he was back to being himself and tail was wagging, happy hops in circles...etc...this is just from my experience...i think if your gf to walk in straight and maybe even call dog out from the room and re enter room with her...that would eliminate an issue...
just my 2 cents....

by Keith Grossman on 03 August 2011 - 17:08
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by brynjulf on 03 August 2011 - 17:08
by beetree on 03 August 2011 - 17:08
Nip this in the bud.

by Keith Grossman on 03 August 2011 - 17:08
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by LadyFrost on 03 August 2011 - 18:08
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