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by K-9 Helser on 15 June 2006 - 02:06

Hello, I would like to take this time to say I am sorry for my Language , I was in the wrong here. BUT I WILL NOT TAKE BAD MOUTHING ME , MY DOGS , OR MY FAMILY . THE OTHER PARTY THAT I WAS TALKING TO SAID ( some really bad things about me all untrue and also my 10 year old son and my wife , Why do you all get up set for someone who is using bad Language but say nothing about someone who has made it their life goal to slander me and my family ? Why would you let that go on and he also said( he would like to meet me at my BP and beat the piss out of me ) His words not mine . So when you all let this go on and it gets someone real hot and mad , Why would you not expect someone to fly off at the mouth like I did . How about this . Talk about dogs and training not someone and their family . I do not take it lightly when my family and son are being made fun of for wearing classes and for being over weight . How about this person taking some credit for what he wrote also . I am big enough to say I am so sorry for what I wrote and please forgive me as I did not mean for it to come out like it did I was hot and mad about the situation and I should have been the bigger person here . Thank you Timothy Helser Amy Helser Austin Helser www.spd-k9.com spdk9@woh.rr.com 937-833-5448 937-572-5067

by Yeti on 15 June 2006 - 03:06

Bravo...it takes a big person to apologize in public and admit he was wrong.. People make fun of other peoples looks, weight etc to make themselves feel better. Ignore that. I understand you getting upset aobut them attacking your family..again that is done by a small person...

by Patiala on 15 June 2006 - 04:06

Hi Tim: I don't know you or your family, so I have no preconcieved opinion about you. Your language was definately inappropriate but I am glad that you have apologized. You seemed to be too much consumed about going to the Nationals as if going to the Nationals is going to make you a different person and all of a sudden everybody will start respecting you. It is not true at all. Most of the people don't give a damn whether someone is a national competitor or not if that person is not a good human being and ofcourse a big part of being a good person is treating other people the same way you would like to be treated. Dog training, breeding, and learning more about the breed we all love, should be fun. Don't take it too seriously, enjoy it. Ajay Singh

by K-9 Helser on 15 June 2006 - 05:06

Hello, I just got a Text on my cell phone from the person that I got into it with on this site . They apologized to me and my family . I would like to say thank you and lets try to be friendly , We don't have to be best friends or even talk to each other but lets please stop that bad mouthing and gossip about each other and I wish you and your the best ! We have a job as breeders of the GSD and trainers , schutzhund competitors and Presidents of our schutzhund clubs to try to reflect good on our clubs and breed and our schutzhund organizations for the betterment of our sport and our way of life with this breed . So Please let's put the past behind us and move on here . We should be working together to promote this breed and sport in the best light we can to all . So with that said I apologize to you for any of my wrong doings to you . Yours in sport and breed ! Timothy Helser Amy Helser Austin Helser SPD K-9 Training Center Zwinger Von Der Helser ( An USA Registered Kennel ) www.spd-k9.com spdk9@woh.rr.com 937-833-5448 937-572-5067

by Preston on 15 June 2006 - 05:06

Excellent. The good side of humanity emerges and wins. We all need to be peacemakers. It takes courage to admit erors and mistakes. Good job to both parties involved! This is very uplifting for us all.

GSDfan

by GSDfan on 15 June 2006 - 11:06

Sticks and stones my friend, some people just enjoy getting under peoples skin. I for one found your explainations for some of the complaints made against you understandable, there are always two sides to every story, but your foul language makes you look "ugly". Thanks for apologizing, good luck with your dogs, the best way to stick it to 'em is to be successful on the field. Yours in the sport, Melanie

by D.H. on 15 June 2006 - 15:06

Why not write a proper rebuttle to anyone who is getting under your skin in the same manner as you did above to begin with instead of flying off the handle as you did before? Nice to see things are worked out but that still does not excuse such outbursts. People will keep getting under your skin, especially if they know they can. Are we expected to accept an appology after every such outburst? I don't think so. And you are just shooting yourself in the foot if you keep it up like that. Most people will remember the fly off the handle remarks rather than this appology, so you might want to keep that in mind for the future. My suggestion to you Tim, if someone pushes your buttons... write what you need to say - the way you feel you need to say it - right away and get it off your chest. Let it flow, don't hold back. But do not actually submit it. Leave it sitting on your computer on a different program (so that there will be no accidental submissions) for a couple of hours, go do something else in the meantime, then after a while when you have simmered down go back and write something more appropriate. That might be a good approach for a whole bunch of people on this site that feel that urge to fly off the handle because of all those little things that gets their buttons pushed too. Just takes a little effort. Healthy restraint is not that hard.

grimmdog

by grimmdog on 15 June 2006 - 15:06

Well, first off, I will say that family should be left out of things. However, you have made enemies because of the claims you have made, publicly and privately, and the things you have allegedly done to people. There are two sides to every story, but it sure seems that you have had a lot alleged against you. Where I see a lot of smoke, I believe there's probably fire. That's just my opinion. I don't put much weight to an apology that comes after a tantrum such as the one you threw here the other day. That was so foul and out of line that frankly, a "well, I see everyone's getting mad at me and people are gonna tell the USA Office how I'm acting, so I'll say 'oops, sorry, it was only cause I was picked on' and make it go away" doesn't cut it. You are not an innocent victim here, and although someone stepped outta line and brought your family into it, you sure one upped him with how you reacted. It's a nice gester to apologize and fess up. But I think only time will tell with you. There is no place here for language or behavior like that and I applaud the moderators here for removing it so quickly.

by Louise M. Penery on 15 June 2006 - 16:06

"That might be a good approach for a whole bunch of people on this site that feel that urge to fly off the handle because of all those little things that gets their buttons pushed too. Just takes a little effort. Healthy restraint is not that hard." ****************************************************** Tim, I didn't read your angry reaction and appreciate your apology. Everyone makes occasional lapses in judgment and may fly off the handle. However, I am of the impression that you derive a livelihood from dogs, their training, etc. For some people likely to seek your services, the possibity of issues with "anger management" from a dog "professional" may raise a "red flag". Over the years, I've seen more than my share of professional dog people with quick tempers--whose lack of restraint may flow over to their dog training practices, their helper work, and their relationships with clients. Just something to keep in mind... Good luck to you! Louise

by bpworks on 15 June 2006 - 17:06

Good job tim!





 


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