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Two Moons

by Two Moons on 19 August 2011 - 20:08


Pirates Lair

by Pirates Lair on 19 August 2011 - 20:08

Very relevant to the topic Moons. Maybe read the article that began with the post.

Anyway I'm done, you can go back to something more useful now like the song thread.


Kim 

by beetree on 19 August 2011 - 21:08

He makes excellent points and it just feels correct, so much that he points out. I am still amazed at how many of my kids' peers are playing Call of Duty and glad mine are content with Brawl, for a bit more than 15 minutes, a day, ahem. 

The point isn't that violent games will turn children into killers, just that it trains them in that capacity whether that skill was intended or not. Without the violence in training/simulators that certain video's game are in essence, they could not be so successful when/if a child acts out in a killing rampage.

And probably the most concerning part-- is when the murderous children were asked why they kept shooting others, (even friends that weren't on a grudge list), the answer is "I don't know." That speaks of conditioning, doesn't it! And why parents need to be educated about what "games" are teaching their babies still in single digits, all these eager learners, something they wouldn't dream of putting on the back of a cereal box.

BabyEagle4U

by BabyEagle4U on 20 August 2011 - 00:08

I dunno but, I have Play Station 2 in almost every room of the house and in Grand Theft Auto Multiplayer Free Mode if these are all kids playing they have some skills. Especially the birds in the air. I can see what they would be doing with drone controls in real life. Holy Cows. 

Everyone always kills me like as soon as I join the game. (lol) If I wanna play for any length of time I have to call up my brother and have him in the air with the Buzzard just so noone kills me in the first 2 minutes. CRAZY !!







Chaz Reinhold

by Chaz Reinhold on 20 August 2011 - 03:08

Kim, I agree. I did not read the article because I know everything. Parents need to step up. A few months ago, I saw an ad for a game where they were building bodies into a hole.

Mindhunt

by Mindhunt on 20 August 2011 - 04:08

Empathy is not taught to many kids, if they don't learn it or experience it, how can they possibly have empathy for another living thing.  I see so many parents talking disrepectfully to other adults and to their children; how can these kids learn to respect others if they never feel respected or see their parents respect others.  I love the father that smacked his kid after his kid smacked mine and said "we don't hit other people", or the mom who screams at her kid "get you're F***ING A** over here".  The parents who tell their boy that he did a good job beating up "a 'tard" and that "will teach them to put 'tards with regular kids".  Yes, there are studies that show a correlation between violent video games and violence against others, but parents need to be parents. Children are born sociable, lovable, and deserving of respect.

alboe2009

by alboe2009 on 20 August 2011 - 07:08

This topic, in my eyes along with parents parenting, single parents raising kids or both parents working F/T jobs is a major contributing factor to the majority of problems socially and criminally. We are all going to be set in our ways, most of that coming from our upbringings and our parents. Times have changed dramatically even in my lifetime. We talked a little along these lines in other threads; kids not listening to adults, let alone their parents. Teachers, individuals with authority all the way up to a police officer, they're not worried and don't hesitate to be disrespectful to all of them.  Now we are not talking of each and every kid but I will say a good percentage, possibly the majority.

As a former LEO my biggest concern was when other LEOs didn't want to be "bothered" by "arresting" a juvenile. Thinking that it wasn't a real arrest. But in essence if the juvenile wasn't arrested when warranted then he/she "got away" with the crime thus making them think they could do it again, think that they were invincible or untouchable. Now, yes, some were thankful for the discretion or leniency and turned to the good but there are those for ALL the social, etc. reasons that will always walk that path of no good. If that juvenile wasn't arrested and given the oppurtunity to become a better person then when he/she becomes an adult and does a crime then that arrest will be forever or a very long time.

We can all bring up a million instances/examples but one of the biggest examples for me was Columbine. These kids were from wealthy or somewhat wealthy families. Only problem was no adlults were home and if they were they thought their children were "perfect angels" and could never do any wrong. Parents were not aware of what was taking place in their own homes. 

Unfortunately there ARE signs but the parental love blinds them at times. There is a good movie; I think it is "The Four Horsemen" with Dennis Quaid. And he was a police officer. Blind to what his son had become.

We didn't have those videos and our childhoods were much more productive. Yes, some of the vidoe games are great in the grooming for the IT world etc., etc. but IMO the violent ones serve no positive purpose. The studies, cases, experiences of say: the kid that is killing the neighborhood cats and dogs, the kid that is always starting fires, the kisd that is torturing animals and creatures. The majority has been proven that all the signals, red flags were there the entire time but either nobody noticed, parents said it was just a phase and so on. 

    

vonissk

by vonissk on 23 August 2011 - 13:08

I agree with Kim and Alboe. Case in point. This morning it told on the news of a 13 yr old boy who was arrested in OK City for killing his 9 month old sister. He was babysitting her, and she fell and started crying. which distracted him. When his man in the video game he was playing got killed, he became angry and frustrated with her and picked her up and shook her. She was taken to the hospital the 16th and died a few days later. Children's Hospital staff told police she suffered a severe brain injury and skull fracture.
http://www.kfor.com/news/local/kfor-teenager-arrested-for-murder-of-infant-sister-20110822,0,3578988.story
I don't have any small kids or grandkids but if I did I guarantee you they wouldn't play any violent video games. Maybe I would be the most boring grandma in town buit oh well. Just my take and the above is a very sad story. Poor parents losing both their children.





 


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